Meditation – The metal maintanance for your mood


It’s 4:30 in the morning, my favorite time of the day during the summer. Watching the light begin to penetrate the darkness, I am greeted by a pair of cardinals singing their wake-up song outside the open window.
While on vacation last month, I would get up every morning at about this time of day and walk down to the dock to sit in uninterrupted silence for about an hour or two. It became my daily ritual. Coffee in hand, I would watch how the rising of the sun gradually changed the landscape. A great blue heron landed silently on the pond, one of the surprise gifts of early morning. Occasionally, a loon would give its haunting cry. I thought, “It sounds like a call to prayer — nature’s call to prayer.”

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What are the gifts of silence? What do we gain from slowing down to rest? Common sense tells us the obvious — we all need periods of rest and replenishment, and I find that the older I get, the more of it I need. Rest is a difficult commodity to come by these days. We’re so used to the frantic pace that slowing down sometimes feels a little foreign.
Even when we purposefully take time for vacation, rest isn’t something we seem to value so much anymore. Staying busy and productive is what we equate with importance. Some people even find that sitting quietly in contemplation is boring, even anxiety-provoking.

And yet, taking the time to commit to a regular, daily practice of restful activity (such as yoga, meditation, prayer, or spending time in nature) has been documented to be good for us. Research has shown that daily repetition of restful activities helps to quiet the brain and the body, for it is through repetition that we are able to break old habits and slow down enough to become aware of the world around us.

Dan Siegel, a neuro-psychiatrist and author of “The Mindful Brain,” states that meditation, particularly mindfulness meditation, has the power to change brain chemistry. Changes include greater emotional balance, improved cardiac and immune functioning, and greater attunement to life in the present. In addition, daily meditation has been shown to increase the neuronal fibers in the corpus callosum, the area of the brain that connects the right and left hemispheres. What this means is that there is greater integration and connection to the two halves of the brain, thus enabling the brain to further develop and improve overall functioning.

These findings have implications for our overall health as well as providing documentation about how the brain continues to develop throughout our life span. Introducing children and adolescents to yoga and/or meditation has produced improvements in self-esteem and has shown a moderate decrease in hyperactivity. Siegel’s research also suggests that if we develop restful practices we can change neuronal pathways and increase the brains neuro-plasticity.
Increased neuro-plasticity is what helps the brain retain vital functions such as memory, creativity, judgment, and the ability to handle complexity. In addition, the practice of yoga has been documented to be the single most effective exercise in lowering blood pressure.

What is fascinating about Siegel’s research is that it has shown that it is not necessarily the amount of time that you dedicate to a contemplative practice that affects brain changes, it is the frequency with which you commit to a practice that makes a difference. For example, people who meditated for five minutes every day had more noticeable effects in terms of brain changes than people who meditated for one hour three times a week. Regular practice has an accrual effect, much like depositing money in a bank. Eventually, it adds up. We may forget about the importance of saving, may even begrudge our commitment to putting money aside; but then one day, all of a sudden, we are startled by the amount that has built up.

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The brain is a lot like a bank. It takes time to change the firing patterns of the neuronal pathways in our brain. However, making a simple commitment to five or 10 minutes each day can make a big difference. Try it for six months and see what happens. You might even start waking up at 4:30 in the morning.

The only thing I found in last six month is – Giving sometime to yourself (alone) will make you more confident, productive and dedicated towards your dreams and goals. Hope you will try the same. All the Best 🙂

60 ways towards Happiness!!


Hello There,

Whatever we do throughout the life, our only goal is to be happy and make others happy who are surrounding us or depended on us, isn’t it? When we get success, we feel happy, but gradually when life goes on wrong path, we feel disappointed and start blaming ourselves or the situations or the others… The fact is we need to build a strong wall of happiness inside us, which help us to stop every kind of disappointment to enter in our mind!! This extreme level of happiness is the most powerful positivity that makes you strengthen above your capacities…

Reason of Success!!

Reason of Success!!

Here are some of the points that we should adopt in our nature and should apply in our day-to-day life. These adoptions will give you a strong degree of happiness for soul!!

  1. Work out Physically on a regular basis
  2. Be thankful to this world, as you’re a unique part of it, no one is like you and no one will be there just like you!!
  3. View your tasks & actions as a “SCULPTURE” and always try to improve it with more finished CARVING.
  4. Desire the best and be ready fro the worst.
  5. Always carry a good book or magazine with you!
  6. Read the biographies of great & legendary people whom you know. (especially Benjamin Francklin)
  7. Define your task, plannings & goals for the entire upcoming week on every Monday.
  8. Define your life’s top 5 priorities.
  9. Drink sufficient water in a day. (some time we don’t drink, as per the requirement)
  10. Face every single hurdle in your way towards your goals with your full strength & a faith in yourself.
  11. Observe your work & actions on daily basis and try to make it more & more improved.
  12. Try to spend more time with people who inspire you the most. If it’s not possible, read their books or blogs!
  13. Define a person as a coach in your life.
  14. Always have a habit to wake up at 5 a.m. every morning.
  15. Always eat lesser than requirement/hunger.
  16. Define and follow more than one leaders in your life.
  17. Always try to lead the others as and when required throughout your life.
  18. Smile to the strangers & always try to increase your contacts.
  19. Follow the values like honesty, dedication, commitment…etc in your daily life.
  20. Always try to come up with your BEST in every single task you do.
  21. Always live a life of your choice. It would be the HAPPIEST life for you!
  22. Save at least the 10% of your income. (Savings are like our BEST BUDDY… always helpful!!)
  23. Develop an interest or hobby for Art & Music. Try to spend some time for it daily.
  24. Go for a tracking or a walk in Gardens, Jungles or any Natural Place around you.
  25. Convey your thankfulness through a letter or orally to those who were stand by you in your worst time of life.
  26. Try to forgive those who behaved badly with you!
  27. Leadership means IMPRESSION & INSPIRATION and NOT the ACHIEVEMENTS & AWARDS!!
  28. Make at least 5 BEST FRIENDS in your life.
  29. Be polite to everyone. Once you try to be, you’ll feel that it’s the biggest source of positivity in your life.
  30. Avoid to watch unnecessary programs on TV.
  31. Always try to read something new and as much as you can.
  32. Always ignore rumors and believe on realistic facts.
  33. Identify your skills & know your turn-on!!
  34. Go behind your dreams and make them real, always keep a faith in your dreams.
  35. Have a faith in yourself and be a faithful person too.
  36. Come up with your full enthusiasm and complete your task/goals/actions with your best potential.
  37. If some day you speak bitter words to somebody, apologize quickly.
  38. Always try to create every moment “UNFORGETTABLE” with your beloved ones.
  39. Do not miss even a single moment to enjoy, throughout your life!
  40. Develop a strong positive approach towards your life.
  41. Identify your capabilities and always try to go beyond that!!!
  42. Concentrate on your STRENGTHS instead of your WEAKNESSES.
  43. Develop a deep patience in your life.
  44. Never give up & do not ESCAPE…
  45. Be direct & clear in your speech.
  46. Always use impressive words in your speech.
  47. Travel a lot throughout the life.
  48. If you feel that you want to study further, START STUDYING…!!
  49. Respect your Family Members.
  50. Always give tips to drivers, workers & need ones.
  51. Develop a personal touch and mental co-ordination with your team.
  52. Do not inspire your critics, ignore them. They are everywhere…
  53. Experience the mountaineering & tracking at least once in your life.
  54. “Panchshil” – know the 5 basic values of our life. You can refer to Agniveer website for this.
  55. For achieving the best, spend some time alone with yourself from your busy schedule of everyday.
  56. Think innovative and always try to come up with creativity.
  57. Speak less and listen to the others more, this will improve your analytical power for every situation.
  58. Define your roll model and try to be like that person. It may be any person whom you know directly/indirectly.
  59. Always give priorities to the important task & persons in your life.
  60. Never be lazy, the more you work, the more energy your body will generate. And then you can go beyond your capabilities & strengthen yourself more & more…

Hope you enjoyed these points and will apply it in your day-to-day life.

GOD BLESS YOU!!